Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Helper-Less
Finally sent my helper back to the agent. She had been of very good help to me and my mum for the past 1 year plus. She had helped take care of Jonas very well too. Just so difficult to understand how things turn up this way. She boarded the plane last Thu back to Indo and I can only wish her the best.
Jon shows no sign of missing her at all. Maybe he is too young. Maybe he is at the age whereby he is more interested in his surroundings to pay much attention that his 'jie jie' is no longer around. Explain to Jay on the day I sent her back that morning "I am bringing jie jie home. You stay here with Po Po , ok". When we went home at night, I have a shock when Jay asked "Where is jie jie". It only striked me then that "home" to a 3 year old can only mean our home. I explained to him in detail this time. Think he understand. Jay had never been closed to jie jie and in fact, always says he doesn't like her so I am really surprised that he even ask about her.
Should I get a replacement? Maybe/maybe not. I will see if I am able to manage without extra help. Shall see....
Jon shows no sign of missing her at all. Maybe he is too young. Maybe he is at the age whereby he is more interested in his surroundings to pay much attention that his 'jie jie' is no longer around. Explain to Jay on the day I sent her back that morning "I am bringing jie jie home. You stay here with Po Po , ok". When we went home at night, I have a shock when Jay asked "Where is jie jie". It only striked me then that "home" to a 3 year old can only mean our home. I explained to him in detail this time. Think he understand. Jay had never been closed to jie jie and in fact, always says he doesn't like her so I am really surprised that he even ask about her.
Should I get a replacement? Maybe/maybe not. I will see if I am able to manage without extra help. Shall see....
Thursday, June 19, 2008
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