Jon

We have been bring Jon home more and more frequently. We used to only bring him home on Friday evenings and pack him back to my mum's place on Monday morning. Recently, the frequency is 2 weekdays as well as the usual Friday. We sense that he already knows he does not come home everyday and we feel bad, real bad especially when we only go home with Jay and not him . The bye byes exchanged when he is behind the gates, he doesn't wave and doesn't smile. When he is outside and my mum behind the gates, haha....he smiles so lovingly and waves non-stop to my mum. This sets me thinking that it is probably time to put Jon in the childcare soon. He is afterall more than 18 months old. But I have another problem, what is my mum going to do ?? And can I handle both of them alone when K can be home very late sometimes....

Jon's speech development is definitely faster than Jay. He can say quite a lot of words now, but Jay is considered slow so may not be a good comparison. Jon is more expressive too whereas Jay is more reserved. That is also the reason why I am not in a hurry to put Jon in CC. I remembered I was quite worried about Jay when he was younger. Thought he may be autistic. I suppose he is just shy. Jon doesn't seem to like books, but Jay loves books. I think I am going to have a bigger problem with Jon when he goes to school next time.